how i talk to my wife in the bedroom


The way I talk to my wife in the bedroom is not the way we talk in public. When it’s just us, in the bedroom, things happen. Good things. We do and say things to each other we don’t do and say in public. These things are intimate, reserved for just the two of us.

We say and do in public out of what we have in private.

In public, Amy and I don’t have to say a whole lot to stay on the same page. We know and love each other, and therefore don’t have to impress each other. And, we don’t feel the need to impress others with how intimate we can be.

This is why I have a hard time listening to some people pray in public. Long, intimate prayers tend to bother me. It’s like those people that make out in public or walk with their hand in each other’s back pocket. Yuck! There’s a place for sloppy, sexy stuff, but it’s not in public.

Quantity cannot replace quality and information cannot replace intimacy. Long and loose public prayers are of those who ignore times of private intimacy!

Am I wrong?